When I was in my twenties and doing coursework in counselling, I was asked to read a landmark book by Dr. George Vaillant. Called “Adaptation to Life,” it detailed the famous Grant Study, which thirty years later, was still underway. Vaillant’s latest findings dig a bit deeper into the men in the Grant Study. It includes what practicing therapists have known for years: men learn how to become intimate as they age into their late 60’s and 70’s. An interesting read, here is a link to more information about this famous study.
In good health,